This is the posting on my Chinese Blog,
thought I will share with you all…
Someone was curious why the spirit need to evolve?
If the spirit never die, then why should it evolve?
My answer is …
you don’t ‘have to’ evolve!
really, it’s matter of choice!
Evolving is not something you ‘must’ do, but a choice you can make.
in the society we are living in right now,
the spirit is evolving like a pyramid.
majority of people are still in the buttom and only a few are really evolved.
but when the society started becoming a upside down …

- By Dr. Marion Goertz (canadianliving.com)  
When children are over- or under-protected, they miss out on being curious and playful, on making mistakes, on learning. They may grow up to lack confidence in their ability to make good life decisions and to keep themselves safe. This perceived lack of competence often causes them great anxiety and leads to spending too much time and energy critiquing their every thought, word and action.

If you struggle with being overly self-conscious, you are likely high on self-awareness and low on self-acceptance. Begin now to acquire …

 
illustrated by Josephine Wall
These days, I seems to have  this debat with my husband quite often,
I often said:  You really do not know how to appreciate me.  I can do way more than regular housewife, but you seem to take it for granted.
He: If you are not like this, I wouldn’t have married you, either.
Well, as you can see…
His feedback often make me roll my eyes.
The person who would said this, obviously do not know how to appreciate what he already has.
 
最近, 一直與老公聊到這樣的事.
我常說, 你真的不懂得珍惜我耶. 我可以做的事, 遠勝於一般的家庭主婦,但你都當作理所當然一樣.
然後老公就會說:要你不是這樣的人,那我怎麼會娶你呢?
害我每次聽到都白眼;因為,會說出這種話的人,顯然不懂得珍惜自己所擁有的.
 
 
This morning, we have debated regards …

I have lots of people debat with me on this point whenever I said “you have chosen your own parents to learn your purpose of life…”
I do see your point on “why would I choose an abusive parent then?”
Well…So you learn how to be strong and respectful on yourself.
I have seen spirits all my life, communicate with them for the past 5+ years. 
It took me nearly 4 years to realize what they have told me is true.   It’s NEVER right or wrong in human standards to decide whether they …

A friend MSN me couple days before Chinese New year asking whether she should buy some Red Underwear for Chinese New Year for good luck? (This is some kind of Chinese New Year Tradition.)
I said: as long as you believe it works. 
She obviously understand how I think, so she didn’t ask any more. 
Couples days later after Chinese New Year, She MSN me again and mentioned that she not only bought the Red Underwear for Chinese New Year, but also a red coat.
In Chinese New Year’s Eve, She happily wear her …