illustrated by Josephine Wall
These days, I seems to have  this debat with my husband quite often,
I often said:  You really do not know how to appreciate me.  I can do way more than regular housewife, but you seem to take it for granted.
He: If you are not like this, I wouldn’t have married you, either.
Well, as you can see…
His feedback often make me roll my eyes.
The person who would said this, obviously do not know how to appreciate what he already has.
 
最近, 一直與老公聊到這樣的事.
我常說, 你真的不懂得珍惜我耶. 我可以做的事, 遠勝於一般的家庭主婦,但你都當作理所當然一樣.
然後老公就會說:要你不是這樣的人,那我怎麼會娶你呢?
害我每次聽到都白眼;因為,會說出這種話的人,顯然不懂得珍惜自己所擁有的.
 
 
This morning, we have debated regards …

There’s lot of people out there like to live in their emotion, making themselves a victim.
When you are living your life like a victim, you will automatically look for evidence to proof you are right, and continously feeling sorry for yourself thinking that everyone is trying to isolate you. 
So, you will only see the time when people are upset with you, but not the time when people are smiling to you. 
You will always believe that everyone hate you, but will reflect what you have done to cause the conflict. 
You will …

I was 15 minutes early picking up my kid from school today. 
during the time of waiting, I was chatting with someone who carried a baby. 
For some reason, the baby keep smiling back to me. 
If I looked away, she would stop.  If I looked at her, she would keep laughing…
(For some reason, I found that the baby under six months old seems to like me, but baby over 9 months usually find me quite scary.)
When I looked at her smiles, 
It remind me that…
when my kis was young, she could easily make …

A friend called me today saying that she was planning to go back to Taiwan this Saturday, but something happened and had to cancel the trip now. 
I wondered:  What happened?
She: Because a friend got hurt from skiing, so I cannot go  back to Taiwan right now. 
Not quite sure how many of you thinking just what I was thinking at the time?
I: What does that have to do with you going back to Taiwan?
She: Because I have to help her taking care of her kids.
I: She can hire some baby sitter …

“Successful people are always looking for opportunities
to help others. Unsuccessful people are always
asking, ‘What’s in it for me?‘“
— Brian Tracy: Personal and business training author, speaker, and consultant