these days, my mind seems to have those “why”…
最近,我的腦子裏一直不斷地出現這樣的問題…
 
Why…
It seems like all the spirits (ghost, devil, god, wind, faeries etc…) can see human, 
but most of human cannot seem to see other spirits other than human?
If those are the spirit that even my cat and dog can see, then how come most of people cannot see them?
 
為什麼,好像所有的靈魂都看得到 “人”, 卻只有人卻看不到任何實體以外的靈魂?
就連我家的貓,狗都看得到的靈魂,為什麼大部份的人卻看不到?
 
All the spirits doesn’t seem to be surprised by the existence of human. 
But how come… when human does see them, we are very easily feeling scared, feared or shocked?
 
所有的靈魂在看到人時都不會大驚小怪的…
為什麼人在看到他們的時候, 卻很容易害怕,恐慌?
 
Why does all the …

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A friend called me awhile ago, telling me that her 24 year old cousin died by car accident.
For some reason, I understand her grief, but had hard time feeling sad as she did.
If it was years ago, death may create some kind of emotion in my life,
But I didn’t seem to feel much these days.  Not knowing if it’s because I have seen too much of it or what…
Feeling my pause, she asked again: why?  She is only 24?  Life is hardly getting started!  Why are they taking her life?
I:Because …